Growing up in an Asian family comes with funny superstitions and beliefs on so many things.
I was told that people with big earlobes will get a great life and people with small earlobes are less fortunate. Maybe it comes from how Buddha’s ears were shaped..
How ever even though this sounds a bit weird, I actually carried this theory with me in so years until I started looking at people and their lives..
I discovered that there are NO connections between the earlobe theory and people’s happiness.
I saw that some people with big earlobes are unhappy with their lives and some with small earlobes are happy. I noticed another important thing with the people who were unhappy, they do not act on their unwanted situation and their attitude towards life is less positive.
So I realized 2 great things!
1) the happiness of your life is not a predetermined fate or it is not based on if some of your body parts are shaped in a lucky special way. The true matter is that you have to take actions and work for it, if you want to achieve “the happy life”.
2 ) Even it sometimes can be difficult, try to keep a positive approach towards life !
I know that this post started off a bit strange but I truly hope that the message is well received at your end 🙂
Take care every one.